Taylor Lautner Bullied in School as a Young Teen

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Taylor Lautner was bullied in school? I bet those bullies hope they don’t meet him in a dark alley now. After fierce training for his role as a teen werewolf in the “Twilight” series of movies, his now famously in-shape body has graced the covers of “Men’s Health” magazine and he’s been named one of “People” magazine’s “Most Amazing Bodies.” He’s also become one of those most popular teen actors in Hollywood dating starlets and driving a fancy BMW. But it seems he wasn’t always adored, especially by his peers at school who bullied him for wanting to be an actor. He told “Rolling Stone” magazine in 2009, “I just had to tell myself I can’t let this get to me. This is what I love to do. And I’m going to continue doing it.”

So if a heartthrob like Lautner is getting bullied, what hope do the rest of have you think? The most important take away from Lautner’s story is this: things do indeed get better. Things change and life will get brighter. Bullying is a complex issue however. And one of the tricky things about bullying may make it harder to stop: bullies are popular.

Typically, we think of the class bully as having low self-esteem, a kid with social phobias in need of an ego boost. Maybe we think bullies are mean as a way of acting out. But recent research suggests that most aggressive behavior in children is actually not the result of psychological or social problems, but rather a desire to maintain one’s social position in the group.  In fact, new studies reveal that most bullies actually have excellent self-esteem; the higher one’s social ranking in school, the more likely he/she is to have been involved in an aggressive incident. That’s right, if it’s true that being class president is just a popularity contest, then perhaps the class president is actually the class bully.

Since the victims of bullies commonly experience depression and social anxiety, this new data supports the implementation of anti-bullying programs in schools. These programs provide students with an environment where they can openly discuss the effects of aggressive behavior and learn conflict resolution skills from adults and peers.

The study collected data from 3,772 students across 19 middle and high schools. Students were asked to name five kids who had physically or verbally abused them, as well as five kids who they had picked on. The study revealed that the desire to achieve or maintain popularity was directly proportional with aggressive behavior. In fact, the more popular a student was, the more likely he/she had been involved in an aggressive situation. Based on the responses from children about their closest peer group, researchers studied how aggressive behavior effects cross-gender friendships, as well as the social networks at large.

On average, 33% of students had exhibited some form of aggressive behavior. Female students exhibited more hostility and placed more importance on social popularity, whereas males were more physically aggressive. In gender-segregated schools, the correlation between social status and aggression was even higher than in mixed gender schools.

Researchers believe administrators, teachers and parents need to work collaboratively to change the peer culture that encourages bullying. If you’re a parent of a school-aged child, it’s crucial to keep the lines of communication open so your child feels safe discussing peer dynamics, which will allow you to help combat aggressive behavior.

According to a recent study involving 5th and 6th graders, it’s not the bullies who are disliked by their classmates, but the kids being bullied.

But remember, that kid you’re bullying today may just end up being a buffed-up teen werewolf, so watch out.

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